Brightfuture, of course you are welcome to come to Australia. Since I am in Queensland, it seems that that was one of the places you haven't been to yet. Gold coast, Sunshine coast, Brisbane.....sun, sun and more sun. Beaches as well.
TTD180, thanks for those nice comments. Yes telling the sons now will allow them time to discuss if they wish with the W. The selfish and guilt trips I have been doing on myself the last year are all over. No more, it is as simple as that. No longer am I going to feel guilty about what I do/did. A couple of days ago I would have felt guilty telling my sons about the transfer, Why? I don't know. Now I felt comfortable about them knowing I am coming home. While I accept some of the things I did (selfish being one of them), I do agree with you, that if I was really that selfish, then I would have been the WAS, not the LBS. I would have also started to plan my owning of everything, or at least demanding a bigger share of the assets. I simply think that whenever I did something for me, it just stood out so much more. Doesn't matter now anyway, just that I am able to look at these things in a different way.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
