First thing you should do is validate her fears. Tell her that you're afraid too and that what she's doing is incredibly brave. Tell her that you are willing to take that leap of faith as she is willing to and tell her that with the dating, you need to do some sort of C and she will have to arrange it. Retrouvaille or the DB intensive would be a good start.

Don't mention the D or you can tell her that you're willing to give it a shot if SHE will postpone the D. She has to take initiative.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER