Should I confront or not?

[peaceSJ]

I told my friend that if he wants to move out and has more space, that's fine; but I cannot accept that he lied to me.

BTW, I need to have a business trip for two days, but he said he already booked a tour on the same week and cannot change the schedule. I know it is only a sightseeing tour. But he wants to to cancel my business trip, otherwise nobody will take care of the kids.

I told him if he needs to go out, he should let me know in advance. So we can arrange our time for the kids. But he replied since I don't agree to divorce, he doesn't want to share his schedule in advance.

I want to set up boundries/time schedule with him, but he didn't cooperate at all. Now most of time I have to drop off and pick up the kids, and it did affect my work.