DARK - how do you do it right? I need help BADLY

[DTM]

We're meeting for dinner out tonight (with the kids..we don't do anything without them...her rules, which I know is an issue that we need to resolve one day)

I will show my happy, content self..no R talk..just smiles like I've won the lottery.

Not that going out to dinner is unusual..nor will going back to the same house be...it's just we won't be husband and wife. That's the part I need to FIX!