F, I will be contacting the youngest son tonight, he was working last night. I am glad you understand that I needed to send the reply email. I did simply send "W, I accept your offer, I am sorry it has come to this. hotwheels".
Thanks AnotherStander, I do feel a lot stronger now. Maybe it was simply the wall I had to break through, at my own pace and time. It was so much easier and guilt free talking to my son about coming home. And no I won't be offering her any more than what she wanted. It was the simple fact mostly that she didn't complain or fight the house valuation I got (from a third party company) compared to her original valuation from a real estate. There was quite a big difference. As you say, it was me accepting she does want this out of her face asap or as easy as possible. Her journey.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
