Good feedback from Sandi and PM! I do like PM's suggestion a lot, I have a feeling your W would react very negatively towards it at first but may respect you for it later. It's a good boundary to establish.

Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57