"She probably thinks that you are the sole source of all her unhappiness, so the farther she can push you away the happier she thinks she'll be. Just grant her wish and give her the space, unless she's a lost cause she will figure out she's still unhappy and eventually come to realize that it's not you after all."
Yup, that is why I have gone into n/c mode. To really give her space to see if I was the source of all her unhappiness. Hey, I guess its possible I was the source of all her unhappiness but I dont really believe that.