9 years just to get her address, that sounds like the babiest of baby steps I've ever heard
Clarification: As I posted earlier here in this thread, it took about 5 to 6 months for Ms. Wonka to give me her 'new' address where she moved in with the OW.
It took about 9 years before our first phone call took place back in the Fall of 2012. That call was 45-minutes long and it was after my father had passed just away with cancer.
Ms. Wonka and her OW have moved in with Ms. Wonka's mother. That address is the one that Ms. Wonka had no problem letting me know.