Yes, I figured that was the case with the texting and yes my W does the same thing...sleeps with the phone and doesn't miss a single one no matter what time....crazy and unbelievable that even though her own mother (who was visiting last week) told her she wanted to smash her phone with a hammer she still doesn't see it as a problem.
I'm not hoping she moves out, that isn't the solution I'm looking for. I'm looking for her to put even a small amount of the time and energy she spends on her phone back into our marriage and come out of her fog.


me - 43
her - 34
married - 14 yrs
Son 7
Daughter 8
The bomb - June 2013