She hasn't given me her new address and I can only figure it's because she is afraid I might show up there?
She probably thinks that you are the sole source of all her unhappiness, so the farther she can push you away the happier she thinks she'll be. Just grant her wish and give her the space, unless she's a lost cause she will figure out she's still unhappy and eventually come to realize that it's not you after all.
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I dont know but it is crazy for her to think that IMHO.
Of course it is, but WAS's don't think rationally unless and until they come out of the fog.
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I find myself for the past few days cycling into a "hey I didnt deserve the way she left me" mode. I'm mad one minute and very sad the next. After 6 months I'm still dealing with the emotions of having a supposed love one simply leave without even a two minute warning.
That's OK, if anyone tells you that you should be over it by now then they're just being armchair quarterbacks. They're not out there taking the hits like us with no pads or helmets on, LOL! But the key that tells me you are going to be OK is what I bolded in your statement. You are dealing with the emotions. Good, that's the path to healing
Originally Posted By: Wonka
talk about a 9-foot thick glacier as in 9 years!
9 years just to get her address, that sounds like the babiest of baby steps I've ever heard
