Just venting a little here because when I read threads like yours where a woman is going through the same thing I am it makes me think... it just doesn't seem fair that LBS's and WAS's get paired up in marriage. There should be some kind of test we all take to show if we're going to be a LBS or WAS. Then pair all the LBS's together in loving marriages and pair all the WAS's together so that when they split they're both happy, LOL! Let all the damned WAS's marry and split and remarry and split and remarry while all of us LBS's live long, happy M's. Ugh! Anyway, I wish you the best, I know it's tough to go through and I know it's frustrating that your H doesn't see the reality of the damage he's doing to you, your kids and even to himself, but that's his world and there's no getting through to him. Maybe he'll figure it out some day and maybe he won't, all you can do is keep driving forward!
