Hi...my first post. Have been reading the board for a few days now. I'll post more detail later. For now, I had an affair and told my wife about it. She asked me to move out, which I did on Aug 7th. On Sept 7th she said she didn't love me, would never be able to trust me again, and wanted a divorce. Needless to say, I fell apart. I want the marriage. She didn't say anything about the divorce again until Oct 19th. At that time, she told me she has retained an atty and is in the process of completing the filing. Not sure what to do at this point.