We keep saying not more fighting but I can't keep my mouth shut!!
I'm not sure keeping your mouth shut is the answer, but learning effective communication skills may be. Do you see an IC? If so, talk to them about this and tell them you need help in diffusing arguments and turning them into meaningful discussions.
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H has said MANY times he is only here for kids and we can't financially. He will not go to counseling. We are done! I know not to believe him too.
Well he's probably serious, so you definitely have a WAS on your hands. Time to brush up on your DB'ing!
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Any advice on living with a husband who wants out.
It's probably what you did before, but get out. GAL. Give him time and space. Quit the pressuring talks. Get out DR and whatever other R books you may have gotten back then and reread them. Refresh yourself on Sandi2's 37 Rules. Good luck!
