Just wanted to chime in and say that I agree with the others. Your BD was less than a year ago and while you are divorced now, I think you still need time to grieve the relationship and do an autopsy of what went wrong.
This is a great time to focus on yourself and your kids. Figure out what will make you happy in life.
You don't want to end up in another relationship before you've had a chance to work on the problems your last one had or you'll keep repeating the same mistakes.
I've realized that as long as I'd consider giving xh a chance if he wanted to work on things, I'm not fully open to someone else. And that isn't fair to them.
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13
