I hope your dad makes a speedy recovery and is home soon.
I didn't contact H when my dad needed surgery, although his dad had surgery at the same time and I did contact him to let him know I was praying, and he said nothing to me. I think he asked my S about my dad though. Then my grandma died and I didn't message him but I think he found out through my BIL and he did message me a condolence text. It's hard knowing what to do and what not to do and where our expatriation really are at. Like you said if you don't know do nothing.
To some degree I feel my H is playing me......I think the better we detach the more we get away from that. I'm hoping that's what will happen.
Job made that comment on my thread. Wonder if she does ever have premonitions about people here? Lottery numbers work for me! Lol
M 16 T 20 M 41 H 39 S 19 S 15 Bomb drop April 4; Moved out April 13 D started-full force ----------------------- Dancing through the fire Cause I am a champion and you’re gonna hear me ROAR