Pud,

I am going to say it again, Mach is right.

I can remember experiencing something similar to what you went through.

It is empowering, freeing, and sometimes, things really do just need to be said.

My X, didn't leave, and I won't be surprised if yours doesn't either right now, but you have changed the dynamic.

Someone told me once that I was pushing a wagon full of bricks. The problem with it was that they weren't mine to move and I should stop trying.

It was a powerful image.

And when I put the wagon down and left the bricks that weren't mine, my whole world started to change.

This is a good thing. Just remember to leave the bricks where you put them down.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox