Wow. Your H sounds confused and he sounds like he is missing "home". The Dark Curse over Fairytaleland still remains, huh? Maybe she won't come back.
The unfortunate part is that she will be part of your memories for a long time.
Don't really have any advice for you, I think you are doing beautifully. I stopped my xSO from talking about GF (when we were still talking). There are some things I did not want to hear and quite frankly, I was sure he was lying to me anyway as he'd been for the year before.
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He's still lost, still doesn't know what he wants and doesn't want to deal with his issues. Time will tell.