Preggo, I can't imagine the stress you're going through right now, it's got to be tough! I wouldn't make any big decisions or try to force your H into a big decision until you get through the birth of s0 (s0, I don't think I've ever seen that used here before, LOL!) Raging hormones, incredible discomfort, stress, it all adds up to a bad time to add separation into the mix. Just hang in there and focus on bringing s0 into the world, try not to think too much about your sitch, take a break from it! Good luck, you can do this!