Is There Anything Left pt 5

[chasingpavements]

Thanks NQ. I must admit I am a little worried about him moving back, as I am kind of liking the way things are, and my new freedom. I guess I am a bid OCD when it comes to cleaning the house, and he goes around making messes everywhere, and letting the kids make messes everywhere. Think I will hire a housecleaner when I go back to work!!! I guess I am just scared about everything.

I think it's good that you are starting to see glimpses of your old H now and then. Isn't that what they say on the MLC phases article.. as time goes by you may start to see more and more of their old self come back, intertwined with their "new" self? It's crazy to watch them go through the changes. I saw my H lose 60 pounds, get braces, dress differently, etc. When he told me he wanted to separate he would come to see the kids and his face looked sunken in almost, so skinny, and his face had this worried/sad look. He is starting to look better and more healthy now.