I agree that I'd just tell her that you'll be moving back home when you are finished with the movie. Maybe that could even give you a chance to really show her any changes you have made.

I've been told that if you think a certain way, then you will act in a way that will allow that thought to come to fruition. What I mean is that you are trying to read her mind and guess that she already has some plans about moving out and you don't really know that for sure. If this is what you are expecting, then you'll probably act in ways that will accomodate this.

I also think I would definitely get some sort of gift for your anniversary. Nothing huge or extravagant but just something that shows that you do care.

I'm no vet or expert, but just some thoughts of my own I wanted to share.

Me: 31 H: 32
Married 10 years, together 11
No kids
H moved out to an apt 8-3-13

Experience: That most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God, do you learn. ~C.S. Lewis