I'm so glad to hear you're starting to piece. Hearing good news really helps when your own sitch isn't going anywhere. I have been reading your thread, just not posting on it.
My H is still way too wrapped up in OW and way too deep in his MLC fog. I do get a glimpse of the old H once in a while, but only briefly and not very often.
No pity parties today. I'm determined to have a good day and not let H have any free rent in my head.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks