I'm so glad to hear you're starting to piece. Hearing good news really helps when your own sitch isn't going anywhere. I have been reading your thread, just not posting on it.

My H is still way too wrapped up in OW and way too deep in his MLC fog. I do get a glimpse of the old H once in a while, but only briefly and not very often.

No pity parties today. I'm determined to have a good day and not let H have any free rent in my head.


Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks