BA, I no longer feel the need to 'duty date' and I really just want to go out with men I'm truly interested in.
I got to this point as well. I felt like I was just going out with people after the first "date" even though it was less than thrilling just to be nice. Then Barbara popped back into the picture and what a difference in feeling it is to be going out with someone you are really into versus just going through the motions hoping something might evolve. I hope that amazing man is in the very near future for you!
Oh and the Red Rocks workout sounds both very cool and very painful! I'd love it too!
I'd love it too!