Hi NQ

I know what you mean about the "walking on eggshells" thing. I felt the same way. That when H was living in the house I felt like I was always walking on eggshells, and when he left I felt that I could start to do things more way, and it gave me a sense of relief. He often nit-picked the things that I would do around the house and it got to be annoying. I have been enjoying some of my freedom, and it has also made me more independent as I have been learning to do things on my own. Not to jinx it, but we are starting to piece. He has told me that he wants to work on things and he is starting IC. Slowly, he will move back in when we are ready. Whoa!! smile

Have a good day NQ!
-cp


M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.