Had a nice evening with H yesterday. He came round and visited with me and the kids and helped get the kids off to their Beaver's meeting. We had a nice dinner and he helped put the kids to bed, and we played some cribbage.

H has been opening up to me more lately, and even showing me some affection and giving me all sorts of compliments. He hasn't done that since BD day 8 months ago. I feel that it is sincere, because, knowing who he is, I don't think he would do those sorts of things unless his heart was in it. I tried to initiate affection with him before and he backed away pretty quickly. Now he is reaching out to me. I feel like this is a big step for him, but I will try not to look into it too much.

M: 8 yrs T:14
Twins:7 S:5
BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013
Mar/Apr/May: MC
June: "living in limbo"
Sept 12: H moves out
Oct 20: reconciling
Jan-Feb 2014:MC
Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.