I have reached a point with my W that I'm not even sure I like her anymore. MLCer's are so selfish and oblivious to the path of destruction that they leave, that it is a major turnoff in every way. You are right to set boundaries. That's something that lets them know where they stand while you are putting up with their cr@p. It also shows that you are standing firm and not being a freaking doormat. I hate that feeling about my life right now. The feeling that you are being rejected, used, and disrespected at every turn. It's tough to deal with. Keep fighting and push out negative thoughts.
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Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13 EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13 EA #2-9/13/13