You don't have to decide anything right now. Let him do what he does, you have a home and 2 little ones to focus on.

Hope S1's issue proves to be minor.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss