Pretty positive, better than I probably expected. Simply said I am coming home for him and his brother. Another thing I needed to do and is over with. I did explain I would have loved to tell him face to face, but didn't want to say it next weekend during his party. Anyway, it just felt right tonight. I don't feel any guilt from doing or saying this now. Woohoo.

Also sent the reply to the W just then.
I know F, your view was to send nothing, but my heart still said to sent that small reply. Nothing more than that.
I am feeling so much better now. Just looked at some websites with regards to stopping guilt during separation.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.