Pretty positive, better than I probably expected. Simply said I am coming home for him and his brother. Another thing I needed to do and is over with. I did explain I would have loved to tell him face to face, but didn't want to say it next weekend during his party. Anyway, it just felt right tonight. I don't feel any guilt from doing or saying this now. Woohoo.
Also sent the reply to the W just then. I know F, your view was to send nothing, but my heart still said to sent that small reply. Nothing more than that. I am feeling so much better now. Just looked at some websites with regards to stopping guilt during separation.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.