Hi Say,

Well, big twist last night!!!

The help with i-phone etc was just an excuse for WAW to talk!!
She still loves me, shes sorry, OM has baggage & is not the answer, OM was a knee jerk reaction & she did it all too fast, step-son (16) is still upset daily over me not being there & is taking it out in WAW he even told OM he missed me!
She really looked tired & drained, probably a bad move but i told her she did!

So a 90 minute conversation full of more of my now almost professional validating! I ended up leaving & telling her:
She has a lot of thinking to do
Loving me is not enough, she has to want to be `in-love' with me again
I will not go back for the sake of Step-son or her money issues
I will not entertain a relationship while OM is on the scene in any way

So lets see what happens next, 4 months in & maybe she is coming out of the fog, I must say that GAL & 180's seem to have been the drivers of this latest situation.

Interesting times ahead

TB


Me 50
W 46
Stepson 16
Together 6yr, Married 3yr
Known each other 20yr
ILYBNILWY Jul 13
Found out about affair Jul 13
Left Marital home Jul 13