Something I learned about dating a while back. Never put yourself in a vulnerable position when asking a girl out.
Back when I was dating, I was taught (by someone wiser than me) to phrase it like this:
"Hey, I am going to see a new show at the art gallery tomorrow night. Afterwards, I might eat some noodles at that funky place by the railroad. Would you like to come along?" It should be clearly implied that you are going either way, and if she doesn't want to go it will be her loss.
Then, if she says no, go alone, and have fun. This works for Getting A Life, and it makes you seem independent, stable, and interesting.
Me:52 Wife:49 Married 19 years Son:16 Daughter:14 Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013 Wife moved out 2Jun13
