It sounds like you made the right decision THX. What was W's response?
She did not respond. I worded the closing in a way that did not imply that I needed any response.
I wrote: "...I already have plans tomorrow so I won't be able to go to the pub with you. Thanks for asking. - THX"
She did ask a few kid's homework related questions, but did not mention the pub thing.
Then later on, without warning, she came and got the car in order to drive to her IC appointment. Once again, she knocked once, then let herself in without waiting for me to answer the door.
Time for me to set some boundaries.
She tried to chat a little bit while I got my keys, so I did my hmm, yeah, okay, conversation.
Getting tired of this sh1t.
Me:52 Wife:49 Married 19 years Son:16 Daughter:14 Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013 Wife moved out 2Jun13