"homework" from job - Hi Job, thank you

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Wow! You go girl! That was great how you did that. Lately, I've been trying to totally cool down before getting into a talk like that, but you did well. Basically, you laid down a boundary that said if H doesn't want to be M, then he needs to get out of the house. This is understandable. I think the plan of going dim (dark will be impossible with your S) is a good plan. Your PMA will definitely improve in time.
ETC