"homework" from job - Hi Job, thank you

[Pudmuddle]

Thanks for being here etc. It's kind of late here, so not much I can do at the moment.

But...it's too late. Because I just can't his selfishness anymore. I walked to his bedroom and flipped the light on. He awoke with a start and said "I'm sorry, I shouldn't have brought this up so late"

I said "it's ok, it needed to be said".

Then I sat on the edge of his bed for a moment.

Here is what I said:

I think if you want this separation then you need to move out.

If this is the life you want to lead, then you must live it.

It pains me to see you destroying your family...all for your selfish needs.

Find someplace to move out.

He was looking down at his bed the whole time. very quietly I hear, "ok"

And you know what? I feel better, sure for the moment of the emotion, but in my heart it felt like the right thing to do.

Now I will go as seriously dark as I can.