Pudmuddle, you handled that splendidly from what I can tell. I know I talk too much and often get myself into trouble with that. You sounded great in this situation. I think you made a lot of great points, stuck to your principles and yet kept your cool. I can see why it would be tough to be living with him knowing how he feels about things. Take some time before asking him to move out. Can you put a limit on how much you can handle? Maybe schedule that decision to ask him for a few days from now before doing anything? Regardless, you're handling things well. I'm pretty impressed.
ETC
"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
