Really what I'm supposed to do is try to negotiate differences, and carefully watch how the other person responds to that. Are they genuinely interested in how I feel, are they willing to try to meet my needs, or are they rigid, put my request down or belittle my concerns. Not necessarily the first time, but when a pattern becomes evident that they are not able to negotiate differences with me, it's time to move on.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
