I'm certainly not a vet here, but I'd like to offer my perspective. If my W told me she wanted to work on our M, I'd probably fall to the ground and kiss her feet. However, in my heart I know I have much work to do on me. I would have to proceed with extreme caution, because I would die before I would ever put her through this again. Honestly, I would be afraid that I would get lazy in the R again. This is my time to work for a change. Jon, don't get lazy! You're a good guy, I can tell. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
M-44 W-45 S21,S18,SS16,SD13,S5,D4 M-9y BD- May 2013 Piecing- Dec 2013