To little Too late

[2little2late]

If any one can answer this, I have an interesting situation.

Since I have been working out of town it has been kind of like a separation. We have been together on the weekends. Me coming back to see our daughter which always ends up in us doing things together as a family. Well the TV show that I am working on ends in December which leaves me coming home. I think that this is making my wife have to think about us and our marriage again which hasn't really had to do. I can imagine that this is probably making her feel uneasy and like she is being backed into a corner. The house we live in is way to expensive for us to afford so reality is that we should move out of it and rent it to pay for the mortgage. But we have not thoroughly discussed this.

My wife sometimes speaks in tongue; I am joking, she is not the best communicator though which seems like she is speaking another language and I feel like she is fishing right now. She keeps asking what I am going to do when the show is over. Am I going to keep my apartment out of town? What am I going to do with my furniture, etc.? As hard headed as she is I am almost certain that she is still planning her escape. My working out of town has just made it easy for her not to have to deal with our situation.

So my questions are...
1)Should I call her bluff? Should I ask her about her concerns. Even though she has never asked for a divorce she has said that she is done with our marriage and I do know how serious and stubborn she can be?

2)Should I ask her if she is not planning on me coming back to our home once my show is done?

3)If I do come home should I ask her if she is going to move out?

I have the feeling that there is still some hidden agenda she has that I am not being included in. I feel like for her she has made up her mind and in her mind thinks that we will be separated or divorced and still have this wonderful relationship that we have now. It may be that way but who knows what the future holds. I may not be strong enough to do this Tango indefinitely.

Any thoughts or comments are greatly appreciated.