I started this in newcomers but I am not new to this sight.


It is very challenging for me since he is home and we share a bed. I am struggling bringing up OW. We have been arguing for 3 days, ugh. We keep saying not more fighting but I can't keep my
mouth shut!! I am going to from today forward.
H keeps saying that he is breaking it off with EA 200 miles away but can't. Says he is having a hard time....

I know I need to stop what I am doing and not bring her up.
H has said MANY times he is only here for kids and we can't financially. He will not go to counseling. We are done! I know not to believe him too.
We did this dance 7 years ago been at this dance before. Obviously we didn't learn.
Any advice on living with a husband who wants out.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2396040#Post2396040


M15 T19
D13 S13
BD Affair 9/13
S 11/13
D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together.
Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.