You are right F, I am not giving in, simply allowing her to travel her own journey. Even if she divorces me I won't give up on her. Certainly down the track I may find someone else, who in turn allows me to become more detached from the W. Can anyone suggest a book that could help with losing the guilt feeling. That is my biggest thing I need to improve, but is also the biggest thorn in my side at this time in life.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
