So if I didn't reply to this email, then it won't make a difference to what she felt about me before BD.
I would consider trying something different at this point! Remember the cheeseless tunnels. Pull totally back and don’t answer since she stated no question. I get it all about the high road but IMHO you can do almost everything about this mail and still be on the highroad!
Originally Posted By: HWA
Yes, the W has initiated all the major things: initiated the BD, the moving out, the splitting of assets. I have not initiated anything apart from advising the work union back in the beginning to stop taking her payments out of my bank account.
Then dump the feeling of guilt totally! You have absolutely NO reason at all to carry this around!
Originally Posted By: HWA
As I said earlier: I need to change a lot of my focus and even goals now. I will spend some time thinking more about it all. But for now I really need to focus on this is her journey, she has chosen to go down this path and I cannot do anything about it. All I can do is choose my path and travel down it. And while I am travelling down my own path, I need to be the best for my boys, improve my positive outlook in life and get out and do more things.
I really like this, HWA! It simply states lovingly detachment. I also read that you are not giving in yet but that the means you will use to fight for your M is 100% you. If I have read it right I am all with you!
All the best and happy thinking
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Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
