Sorry you find yourself here. Its a tough situation you find yourself in but you have found a valuable resource. Be sure to post the details of your situation so that others can have a baseline and provide the best insights.
Getting responses at first may be slow while on moderation, but be sure to read other peoples situations. You will find similar stories and hopefully learn from some of the advice given to them. Just keep posting and hang in there.
me: 30 XW:28 tgthr:4 m:1 no kids BD: June 2013 D: Jan 2014