Remember he doesn't live there anymore. If he gets snarky, time to ask him to leave. It's your pad now and no one is allowed to verbally abuse you in your home.
I felt the same way when my H moved out. Within three months, I took care of a laundry list of stuff he had been avoiding for years.
We had this old king size mattress that was uncomfortable as he!!. I couldn't sleep in the "marriage bed" anyway, so I dumped it. I slept on a couch bed I received from my Grandmother until I could afford a mattress.
I actually rented a dumpster and just pitched stuff from all over the house. It was full when it was picked up.
Re-painted my bedroom. Replaced the front door. Painted the front hallway, painted my classroom for tutoring, ripped out old carpet. Cut down dead trees, bought a chicken coop, got some chickens... It was awesome.
Enjoy it. It's one of the perks of this trip through He!!.
Much Love,
Heather
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
