getting ready for D talk. At this point, my approach will be to calmly explain that since I believe true healing can only come through R, I have no interest in filing. W can do that if she'd like - I won't fight it, but I don't want to go along with initiating the process. Does this look like I'm still pursuing? Perhaps. But it's how I really feel and I want to maintain my integrity throughout this sitch as best as I can. At the moment, I feel great.
ETC
You are under no obligation at all to file for the divorce only your wife wants. Sure, she would love for you to do it for her, because then she won't have to feel guilty about it, and that way you become culpable for it. She might even creatively "remember" in the future that you were the one who filed - so the whole thing becomes your fault. And she is the innocent party.
Personally, I am not going to fight my wife's divorce, but I sure as he11 would not file it for her.
Me:52 Wife:49 Married 19 years Son:16 Daughter:14 Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013 Wife moved out 2Jun13
