the difference between competition and motivation is the impetus behind it

Competition is when you play against someone else for a win
(what you do with your ex)

motivation is all about you
(what we keep telling you to do)


If you have wolves at your door you best stop investing in a college education for awhile and feed the wolves.

IF you were really where you say you are (in Ramsey's book) you wouldn't be working a million odd jobs and worried about paycheck to paycheck

when you stop using your ex as your "motivation" to live better, you might actually LIVE BETTER