Ha! I'm doing plan #2 tonight. I'll let you know how it goes. I've reframed everything in my mind:

- My W no longer "loves" me and that's just fine. (not sure what "love" even means to hear nowadays, thus the quotes)
- I don't want a D, but she's free to move forward with that anytime and I certainly won't fight it. W is one of many options in life.
- I'm having a great life with or without W. W doesn't dictate my happiness
- Life is a great teacher and I'm going to learn something from all of this no matter what happens
- I can still have a great time with W even if we're no longer M. We were friends before we got M and I don't mind going back to that state, though she won't be my best bud anymore.

ETC

"Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can."
UrWorthy