It is the idea of giving away their new address which makes them vulnerable and exposed as if we just might barge in their new front door! crazy crazy
Lol that's what I think as well, either that or bombard them with junk mail or camp outside their door H hasn't given me his address nor any address to forward his mail to, which means I've got to text him every time he gets mail and he's fetches it when he knows I'm going to be out! 2old if you go to my thread, you'll see the dilemma I've been having lately regarding my H's mail. I do know his new addy because I overheard my H talking on the phone. He still hid his address from me when he was filling in a form though. I feel like telling him that I know it, but I want him to be the one who tells me. So far I've not camped outside his door or sent him junk mail, lol. I've not even given any person in authority his new addy. For all I know it's not his new address, just an address he uses for his post. I would send her post onto her son for now and put a note on the envelope saying please change this addy or I shall be returning it to sender, thanks. Don't put your name on it or anything and don't expect a reply. Next time you get some post in, then mark it return to sender At least then you'll be giving her the op to change her addy
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
We are now 6 months into this and she knows I am not going to go pounding on her door. Hell, she's 900 miles away from me good grief....Anyways, how long was it before ms. Wonka gave you her new addy? just curious.
It was about 5 or 6 months before Ms. Wonka gave me her 'new' address and 1,300 miles separated us!
HEy Cadet, yea it's got to be something like being crazy....She damn well knows I'm not about to invade her privacy in any way. And yet I continue to be treated poorly by her. Whatever!! I'm staying my course now and will send her letter along as good ole TTD said.
I'm not even pushing by saying anything about return to sender. There hasn't been that much coming anyways for her. I think maybe 3 or 4 months ago this stuff would of set me emotional again but 6 months in with her still behaving icy towards me with limited contact has helped me deal much better.
I'm tired of being treated the way she is doing me and as Sandi gave me the words to Frankie Valli's song, walk like a man. I have had the original video to that from back in the mid to late 60's. I've been playing it now also alot more.
TTD, I do read your posts everyday...And one thing I must tell you is how funny you "brits" speak..lol...Whilest your are decluttering...ugh......haha...
Hey! who are you calling old! lol. It's you Americans who speak funny, not us Brits lol. Just kidding Anything you're not sure on, just asked WE don't mind explaining things and it'll help you understand us more
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
It's you Americans who speak funny, not us Brits lol. Just kidding Anything you're not sure on, just asked WE don't mind explaining things and it'll help you understand us more
What a barmy, bloody idea!! We'd all be gobsmacked at the notion that you Brits need a tot now and then. Oh and throw in a snog while you are at it. No fagging allowed. The swots will turn up their noses at that one.
It's you Americans who speak funny, not us Brits lol. Just kidding Anything you're not sure on, just asked WE don't mind explaining things and it'll help you understand us more
What a barmy, bloody idea!! We'd all be gobsmacked at the notion that you Brits need a tot now and then. Oh and throw in a snog while you are at it. No fagging allowed. The swots will turn up their noses at that one.
Lol Wonka, jolly good chap! carry on as you were! lol. Actually we don't talk like that anymore, you're thinking of the old war films And we're not cockneys either before you start talking cockney, lol.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
Actually it's you Brits and Americans who speak funny. Us Aussies have got it right. Bloody oath, mate.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
lol. Just kidding 