Play it safe... send in a stunt double. If she's really in MLC she probably won't even notice.
Did you guys have much contact when she was away?
After 11 days apart I'd wanna meet up just to gauge where she's at. But yeah, you gotta be strong. You're the catch she's throwing away.
Good news! Brad Pitt is doubling for me. (Joking. It wouldn't work - I'm better looking than him - and a better actor.)
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Actually, I have had no contact with W in over two weeks, other than one email I sent informing her of S16's poor progress report from school. (S16 has ADD.)
I have a lot of patience as well as self control. Also, I am learning that I am a much stronger person than I realized before this krapfest started. I guarantee I would not break down, get weepy, say ILY or anything like that.
I might, however, be tempted to imply that I know she is on the pill, and having/had a PA with guy(s) from work. Yeah, I know that would be a bad idea, but it is driving me crazy to not confront her about stuff I know is going on.
I mean Hell, this whole thing svcks, my wife is having an affair, and I don't even get to let her know I am aware of it?
Me:52 Wife:49 Married 19 years Son:16 Daughter:14 Bomb dropped with ILYBNILWY: May 2013 Wife moved out 2Jun13