I think you muddy the waters...especially since it is her suggestion. If you aren't talking to a DB coach, I suggest you do. Your coach will help you decide the best approach to take and what will bring her closer and what will push her further away. They are experts that have helped thousands of people save their marriage. I would be happy to talk to you about coaching. Take good care.
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