It is the idea of giving away their new address which makes them vulnerable and exposed as if we just might barge in their new front door! crazy crazy
Lol that's what I think as well, either that or bombard them with junk mail or camp outside their door H hasn't given me his address nor any address to forward his mail to, which means I've got to text him every time he gets mail and he's fetches it when he knows I'm going to be out! 2old if you go to my thread, you'll see the dilemma I've been having lately regarding my H's mail. I do know his new addy because I overheard my H talking on the phone. He still hid his address from me when he was filling in a form though. I feel like telling him that I know it, but I want him to be the one who tells me. So far I've not camped outside his door or sent him junk mail, lol. I've not even given any person in authority his new addy. For all I know it's not his new address, just an address he uses for his post. I would send her post onto her son for now and put a note on the envelope saying please change this addy or I shall be returning it to sender, thanks. Don't put your name on it or anything and don't expect a reply. Next time you get some post in, then mark it return to sender At least then you'll be giving her the op to change her addy
H47 me48 T22 M21 S20 - Got high functioning autism 3/2000 H admits to OW and moves out to live with her 11/2000 H moves back home 2/4/13 H moves out H tells me he wants D 6/13, but now he can't afford to!
