Also, RL, when H & I were talking this past weekend about his MLC, he told me that he needed to hit bottom once or twice to see reality.
My H just said this to me on Fri. He said he needs to bottom out and be shown more than once what it is he is doing and the impact on all of us. The lasting impact that can hurt us.
During the height of MLC there was so much to do and see with his new MLC glasses there is no way to see or care about the destruction in his path.
Now as thing are "not as fun" and people are no longer "as friendly" he is waking to the reality of it all and now needs to make that finale choice.
He hasn't moved out, he has made that choice very clear, and is not having relations, all good stuff, but he has his last steps he needs to conquer.
He fights the reality of things and lacks the strength to deal with them. Maybe bottom hasn't hit him hard enough yet!
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
