Yeah, the fact that she came out of IC more confused about what she wants is a good indication that she needs a different C. Too many C's these days are just all about doling out the empathy without challenging people to get their crap together. You'd think with all the negative data on D that C's would pull their heads out of the sand and focus on saving M's instead of laying all the "you need to do what makes you happy" hippy garbage on people, LOL!

Dingo, as a side note I can't ever say or read your name without putting my horribly awful Aussie accent on it laugh Good luck to you brother, it sounds like you've done a lot of soul-searching and have a good line on what it is you want. I hope your W comes out of the fog sooner rather than later, she's showing some positive signs but it's still a long road ahead of her.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57